Anything
you do in life requires the implementation of goals. Goals are your
dreams, aspirations, ambitions to be or do whatever it is you want to accomplish in your
life.
The beauty of goal setting is that it works in every facet of your
life. Your marriage, health, kids, job...ANYTHING. Without goals your life is
pretty much meaningless.
There are two types of people; people who achieve their goals, or
people who find ways why they can't.
People who achieve their goals are detail-oriented and have a specific
plan that will enable them to succeed. They don't make excuses or complain why it's
so hard or dwell on problems that may arise. These types of people are
solution-oriented. They know that the goal will require hard work, but they are
determined to achieve the objective at hand.
People who don't achieve their goals are disorganized and have a
generalized plan that will ultimately lead them to fail. They would rather complain
instead of focusing on what they have to do. These types of people are
problem-oriented. They don't want to work hard and would rather make excuses why
they can't achieve the goal.
In my opinion, goal setting is the single most important aspect of your
fitness plan. It's the blueprint, the script, the nucleus, the centerpiece, the
focal point of everything that will help you succeed.
When I first started training clients, I was never really serious about
goal setting and although I did well, I could have done so much better.
Today, I don't even consider training a client unless he or she knows
exactly what their goals are and are willing to do anything and everything to accomplish
them. I have them make goals that are daily, weekly, monthly and yearly.
Fact is, once I started to clearly define goal setting with clients, my
success rate shot through the roof!
Usually, clients would come to me for weight loss and it didn't matter
how much weight they wanted to lose...Once I programmed them to constantly be working
toward their goal, the weight would come off so effortlessly; it was like shooting fish in
a bucket!
It's not because I am the best trainer in the world, or because I know
of some secret weight-loss formula...not at all.
I know how to teach my clients how to set goals and most importantly
how to help them understand that they CAN achieve them, IF they stick to the plan.
Now, let's go back to the people who achieve their goals and people who
don't.
Which one are you?
There is no reason in the world why you can't be the person who
achieves their goals.
As Henry Ford once said:
"If you think you can or think you can't, you're right."
Life is nothing but decisions. You decide to succeed. You
decide to fail. You decide to be happy. You decide to be sad.
Even if you make mistakes along the way, it's your decision to keeping
working hard or it's your decision to give up. In my opinion, there's no in-between.
You decide to be a winner or loser.
So let's say your goal is weight loss, which most of the time it is
when it comes to fitness and health. Ask yourself these important questions:
How much weight do I want to lose?
What will happen if I don't lose this weight?
What will happen if I do?
How will I feel if I lose this weight?
Do I know exactly how I will do it?
Can I achieve it by myself or do I need someone's help?
What is my time frame for losing it?
What is stopping me from losing this weight?